Plus, people have divorced for far, far less. Fat is where it's at in that family and I love it. It was just me trying to neigh the my instincts of becoming a complete blob. Awww, does someone need their bloated belly rubbed? Sounds like someone has never been with a man of substance.. My husband is always grabbing my love handles ( having kids, I can't get rid of them no matter how hard I try). My youngest, who is 10, weighs 248 lbs, my middle daughter is 12 and 307 lbs, and my oldest is 14 and 382 lbs. I've put on over 120lbs of pure fat since then, sitting around 322 now. I know my obsession is getting into dangerous territory when I start getting mad. Ice cream and cheesecake are cocaine to us fat men. Dr. Gilda says: As is the case of many long marrieds, the two of you have gotten into some sloppy physical habits. Believe it or not plus sized clothing for children is easier to find in the UK than it is in the US. We dont talk about it, but I can tell shes on a mission to make her chubby hubby even fatter. The latter. I agree! =( I feel so guilty for enjoying this. His legs and arms are still quite lean. You should always seek an expert opinion if you need to. Shes thickening up a little now, and its a dream come true. I'm 15, 5'5" and about 120-125 pounds and I'm a size 0-2. How much weight has he gained? In some ways, fat has a regulating effect on some people in that they are kinder, more empathetic, etc. Unfortunately when my wife wants her favorite high fat, high carb foods, the kids want to eat that as well and telling children that young that they cannot have what mommy is having or what their friends are having is kind of difficult. How much do you miss being slim and skinny? It turns me on to think that I have doubled his weight. This is going to take effort, time, and patience, which very much sucks. Because if she is the type to be constantly trying to be a good fatty by constantly attempting some dumbass diet or worse yet, weightloss surgery, then both you and she will be miserable for the rest of your lives. Funny how an average american woman life packs on the pounds ha. Don't think marriage is in the picture anymore. Regarding your girlfriend's weight gain, it's worth having a conversation with her about it - one that focuses on her feelings, not yours. This time, if the subject comes up about weight, I just pat my belly and own the moment. Make your intentions and desires known up front before you commit. Or should I just let go and let the inner fatty out/let the seems pop? So I've embraced being fat and I love my husband a lot i don't want him to look elsewhere . It makes a lot of sense for your attraction to have dipped. You mean like metaphorically or like physically because we are bigger than skinny people? Anxious to hit 300 and then on to 350. I think you should bring it up to her. But Danny, 46, is no longer the lean, dark, handsome type she fell for. Its actually been a lot of fun to just eat whatever I want whenever I want. Thats some dedicated stuffing. Has his thing shrunk? But unless you know me really well, its not super noticeable. I love that full, heavy feeling of over eating with a full fat growing gut hitting the table. The content published on this blog is for informational purposes only. It's such a sore subject . But we will love it when you join us!! couldnt keep my hands off her. It really sounds like you are both having a great time. No more worry over appearance and weight. Now super SAGY all over. Telling him that will cause nothing but resentment and insecurity. After 5 years of marriage, he now weighs 360 pounds with a 60 inch waistline. Ooof, me too. I know it's not good for you but I am having fun with it and figure I can lose if any health problems show up. It might be a hard process of bulking up and then cutting down. Are they teased and called names? They speak longingly about how fit their husbands were when they first met them and how unfit they are now. Plenty of fat people are healthy. A few more indulgent calories when I feel like a snack or a special dessert. Its not my hubby getting fat, its me!! And sometimes he will sign off on a return text with "T" for Tubby. My favorite part is when my wife is winded on the stairs and needs to stop to catch her breath. He says the s** is beyond awesome. How would I say anything? Her thighs had gotten skinny, from being very fat before, and the skin was all wrinkly and flabby. Blow up huge together. Its not like hes unhealthy big but after 20 years together he is about 125 pounds bigger which sounds like a lot when I type it but really isnt. I feel very, very shameful and bad. She gave birth to our second at about 475lbs. Its been 4 years and we're married now and i've gained 100 pounds, yet he still keeps feeding me, giving me larger portions and more dessert than ever because he wants me to get to 400 pounds, which is fine with me cuz now i just, like, don't care anymore about how hevy i am. I want to admit to him, but I'm afraid. no dibetes or nothin. I love him to bits . Hes always trying to get me touching his belly or squeezing it. When you were singles seeking a mate, you knew you needed to maintain your appeal . Oh yes. I dont see as many people because of the pandemic, so mainly just like my mom or sister. We've been married for just about 5 years also, and I too have gained right around 100 pounds. But no plans for diet or exercise to lose all this weight, unless, you know, something goes wrong with my health. A fat body can (but does not always) imply laziness, short-sightedness, and a kind of disregard for one's holistic well-being." "A woman who is fat clearly just doesn't care about herself." "Being . It's a challenge that many of us don't meet. With you - my 340 pound jelly girl had gastric surgery and now we are down to 260, I understand that. but I'm not sure I want to anymore. I love his growing cute little (for now) belly. At 55, you are a very normal weight for awoman. That's good to hear. Our next goal is 350 and I'll probably stop around there, but honestly, the thought of getting up to 400 makes me so wet it's unbearable.We've got a stuffing date planned for tonight, and we're gonna try something new where she's going to go down on me while I'm sitting on the couch eating a whole (medium sized) cake. Yup, you can be sneaky about it! That you physically dont appreciate it or that it represents or reminds you of him being lazy/unhealthy/unattractive? I wouldn't mind if he did . Has she said anything about it yet? I am guess a chubby chaser. Thats great!). Id rather have a fat husband than no husband at all. Have you always been fat? Well be prepared because your girls are going to face a lifetime of pain and misery because you and your enormouse wife allowed them to get super fat. Sounds fantastic - are you mutually gaining? It sounds like a sentence out of the mouth of every guy who . Lot to loose but for you it sounds like you may have made your mind up. She's only 135 and works out regularly. Most would hate it, but some would like it. I write about; Fat people, Im fat, and I'm tired of being fat, what has worked for me to lose weight, the things I've learned about how hard it is, and the problems with that. More often, it waxes and wanes. My kind of man! I want to learn some, Ive never been fatter and my wife has never been happier. Copyright 20052023 ConfessionPost.com. I said I didn't want her to have it that she looked beautiful. A girl who loves big boys finally finds one who likes to eat. All the best to you and your beauitful, round woman. They were'nt worried about how the partner's of his daughter/sister looks. Well more and more breaks now as he loses his breath pretty easy now. How much ice cream can you eat at one sitting? I havent been a pig about it. Pinterest. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. But when it comes to weight and food, I feel so helpless. I'm going to sit on my fat ass and eat until I can barely walk. So since Ive been with my husband Ive gained about 50lbs. When we got married, my 5'5" wife was chubby at 175 lbs. And truth be told, I sort of like the air of mystery about it. Were not kids any more. You are allowed to feel this way. Nothing like a big hanging fat bag. She currently weighed in last week at 417. Being comfortable in a committed relationship is more important than any dress size or pants size to me. Its normal to be less attracted to someone when they arent caring for themselves, when they arent taking initiative, when they have less of an external life going on than they did before. It could also happen if youve never done much strength training to produce muscle growth, you dont eat enough protein-enriched foods, or you have been in a calorie deficit for too long by burning more calories than you are taking in. After the pregnancy, her blood sugar normalized, and she's still packing it on. With her size now I have to have her track pants made and forget undergarments bras and panties they don't make any large enough for her. They said they wanted to keep me from developing health issues as I grew older. But it's amazing how often we jump through psychological hoops of self-justification to . Let me tell you, she pigged out and gained a whopping 85 pounds. Sometimes it feels more like were roommates than boyfriend and girlfriend and Im really upset by that. (Instead actually say what you feel though, obviously.) Because of the excess weight, I worry about her long term physical health but I probably worry about her emotional health even more. You need to let her do what makes her feel happy. Just be honest and upfront and complementary of her new size and shape. Id guess 30 pounds? Trust me, she knows she has put on weight. But what can be expected when you don't even have enough self respect to keep your own weight under control? She hasnt said too much. Any idea on where you will stop? She did it anyway . Visualize something positive in your life, rather than focusing on what your husband just said. chapter 1 - skinny. They're sooo cute! You loved him previously, and Im virtually certain you still love him now. Yes, After she started putting on some weight, she made a few comments about getting too fat, and I told her that I prefered her that way, so she just stopped worrying about her weight. Is it hopeless? My chubby wife has grown into quite a large woman in the last 10 years, well into the 300 lb range and I LOVE IT.I never knew I liked fat women until I met her and as she grew fatter and fatter s** got better and better. My suggestion is to talk about it and if both of you can't come to an agreement and it doesn't sound like you're meant to be together. Best of luck! The things I've enjoyed, the ups and downs of fat people because I'm fat, and any advice and tips & ideas I've picked up along the way that has helped me and may help you. I also say "Your b.o.o.b.s are bigger than mine!" The s** is amazing for us he loves my big bum. Say yes but don't do anything. 65 pounds in 24 months is a lot. But I do plan on fattening him up after the wedding date to keep other ladies away. You've accepted that you're now a fat man. I am that fat wife. MY fat boy! My fianc is an attractive man and makes a good living. I want to be a My husband is getting fat and I love it! December 25, 2018. I just went up to a size 48/30 jeans! Youll find that this will help put 25+ pounds on your hubby as you start your married life and then you can increase his portion size to get another 25 pounds on him by your first anniversary. until I eat it all. He loves to look after me . It's only bigger and rounder for the future! My wife is also fat and it's so hot. Put that extra fat on girl - he loves the blubber. Its only been 20 pounds. He had his shirt off last night, and WOW, what a pot belly. Gain together - mutual gaining is great you get to point out where he is getting fat and needs to size up - poke poke - and he gets to see your belly rolls! So since then it's been eat, eat, eat and it's been wonderful so far. He has put on nearly 250 pounds, and I intend to keep getting him even fatter! As they widen and bulge they advertise their greed and indulgence to the world. Howre you going to do it? I can't take my hands off her fat bum . About 7 months ago I met this very sexy girl who is quite tall at 5'10" and so much fun and weighs 476 as of 5 days ago. Eat late. He has an actual ass. He always has had a great appetite, and I like to see men get fat, so I keep him well fed and only cook really fattening dishes, which he loves. I should be able to push her way up over 600lbs in the next year. than similar people who are thin. I m not so sure its a fetish for everyone. I don't know exactly what I'd thought I'd accomplish by confessing. Im used to being in charge of things. Or when I clean my plate, shell compliment me on doing a good job. After the pregnancy, she just never lost the weight, and in fact, much to my delight, kept gaining. Just because hes lazy and doesnt care anymore doesnt mean you still have to be attracted to a fat and lazy version of your husband. He would probably get turned on . For one, I don't like to see someone purposely deprive themselves of something or to be unhappy, but also because I'm scared he'll get skinny again. How do you feel about it? That will make her feel confident and beautiful and want her to keep those extra pounds for her appreciative man! I would really enjoy my wife gaining weight, but shes a gym rat. I am fat. When we go out to eat he encourages me to eat more, and when I say I am full he just says, C'mon, just one more bite. Say yes and gain as much as possible. If a man marries a fat woman because he like his women big, it is her duty to stay fat. One solid inch up several not-so-firm inches out. Trans fat, alcohol, added sugar and fried foods are linked to fatty liver disease. He just keeps eating. Hopefully, this time next January, I'll will be waddling at the 350 lb mark. He says he's getting fat, he said he's never been this heavy, always calls himself a fatty (and other various words), that he's gonna lose weight, he's gonna eat less, etc., etc. All rights reserved. I started binge eating during the pandemic and I have been struggling with my weight. She thinks she likes it like that. Iam very big girl now at all most 400 pounds and Ive been married for 6 years my husband adores me loves me am very happy and glad of the attention. I don't know if he's testing me for my reaction or what. This should be obvious. What Im concerned about is his mental health. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. That is why unless you get regular health check-ups, you probably wont be able to know. And why? I would think she would want me to diet, but she is the one who keeps bringing home my favorite ice cream - Ben and Jerry's Cannoli, and pound cake, omg I could live on that! This one is different. SoI am walking around with all this weight. 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